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Paul Linger
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Paul Linger, BACP

Counsellor - Anxiety and Addictions

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  • CBT
  • Attachment work
  • ACT elements

About Paul

Counsellor Paul Linger is a BACP counsellor with four years of professional experience. He works in the United Kingdom and helps people with stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, depression, grief, parenting and other life changes.

Paul describes the person in front of him as the expert on their own life. He aims to build on the client’s strengths and practical resources. Sessions are conversational and focused on what is causing difficulty now and what can help in the coming weeks.

Before his private work Paul spent around ten years in mental health services. That included roles in autism and additional needs, addictions, youth work and social care. He also has recent experience in a community mental health service within the NHS in the UK.

Paul’s practice draws on a mix of approaches. He uses cognitive behavioural techniques alongside attachment-based and client-centred ideas. Dialectical behaviour principles and elements of acceptance and commitment work also appear in his sessions where they fit the client’s goals.

His style is interactive and direct. Paul aims to offer clear options for coping, thinking and behaviour rather than long theoretical explanations. He encourages simple experiments between sessions and practical ways to test what changes help.

People who choose to work with Paul usually want hands-on ways to reduce distress, sort relationship problems or manage ongoing difficulties such as addiction, eating issues or mood swings. He asks new clients to complete a short questionnaire before booking a first session.

How Paul uses therapy approaches online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts, choose values that matter and try small committed actions. It suits people struggling with anxiety, low mood or avoidance. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and behaviour and gives practical steps to test different ways of coping. It is often used for anxiety, depression and stress. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on patterns in relationships and how early experiences affect current trust and closeness. It can help with intimacy difficulties and attachment issues.

Deciding which approach to use is part of the work. Paul will discuss different methods with each person and agree a plan based on needs, goals and preferences. The process is collaborative and adjusts if the approach does not feel helpful.

The biography does not specify which online session formats are offered, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions around work, childcare or travel. It can also allow shorter check-ins, phone-only talks when bandwidth is limited, or regular sessions without needing to travel. These practical benefits are why many people choose remote counselling with registered or accredited professionals.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Family conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What sorts of problems does he help with?

He supports people with stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, depression, grief, parenting and related concerns.

What is his therapeutic style?

Paul works in a conversational, interactive way. He focuses on practical coping, short experiments and clear options for change.

How much experience does he have?

He has four years of professional counselling experience and around ten years of prior work in mental health services.

Which professional body is he a member of?

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

How are sessions delivered?

The biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

What does therapy cost?

Cost varies with location. Sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I get started?

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