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Gabriel (Gabor) Bene
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Gabriel (Gabor) Bene, BACP

Counsellor - anxiety and relationships

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  • CBT based methods
  • Attachment work
  • Client-centred approach

About Gabriel

Gabriel (Gabor) Bene is a counsellor and a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). He has six years of practice and primarily works with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, anger, addiction and mood concerns such as depression and bipolar disorder. Sessions are conducted in English and he accepts international clients.

Gabriel uses a mix of approaches to suit the problem presented. He draws on cognitive behavioural ideas to look at patterns of thought and behaviour. He also uses client-centred methods that keep the conversation focused on the person's experience. Attachment-based and emotionally-focused ideas are used when relationships and intimacy are central issues.

In a typical session he listens to what is happening right now and looks for practical ways to reduce distress. That might include trying out small changes between sessions, testing different ways of handling thoughts, or practising new patterns of relating. He can help with sleep and eating problems, managing anger, coping with grief, and the stress of caring for others.

Gabriel notes work with a wide range of concerns including ADHD, codependency, body image, adoption and foster care issues, chronic illness and neurodiversity such as autism and Asperger syndrome. He also supports people dealing with career pressures and parenting strain. He aims to be straightforward about options and next steps.

To start, clients use the website matching tool and book a first session. Fees vary by location and sessions run on a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. If unsure about formats, the reader should confirm current session options before booking.

Therapeutic approaches and remote counselling

Gabriel commonly uses cognitive behavioural therapy and client-centred work as part of his practice. CBT looks at how thoughts, feelings and behaviours interact and offers practical exercises to shift unhelpful patterns. Client-centred work focuses on listening and reflecting so the person feels understood and can explore what matters most to them.

He also draws on attachment and emotionally-focused ideas when relationships are central. These approaches look at how past and present connections shape reactions and help people try different ways of relating in close relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the first sessions. He works with clients to decide which methods fit their goals, preferences and the problems they bring. That choice is revisited over time so the work can change as needs change.

The biography does not list specific online formats. Please confirm the current session options before booking. In general, remote sessions can make it easier to fit counselling into everyday life by removing travel time, allowing shorter check-ins, and offering options that do not require being on camera. Registered or accredited professionals can offer these practical benefits while helping people work on sleep, anxiety, relationship issues and coping skills.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseAnger managementCompassion fatigue

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What issues does he help with most often?

He works with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, anger, addictions and mood issues including depression and bipolar disorder.

What style of therapy does he use?

He blends cognitive behavioural techniques, client-centred methods and attachment or emotionally-focused ideas depending on the concern.

How much experience does he have?

Gabriel has six years of practice as a counsellor and psychotherapist.

Which professional body is he a member of?

He is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP.

In what language can I work with him?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can I work with him from outside the UK?

He accepts international clients.

What are the session formats available?

The original biography does not specify session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How do I begin a course of sessions?

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