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Deborah Flett
DeborahUnited Kingdom

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Deborah Flett, NCPS

Counsellor - anxiety and relationship support

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  • Person centred
  • CBT tools
  • Psychodynamic ideas

About Deborah

Counsellor Deborah Flett is registered with the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) and has three years' experience working in adult services in the United Kingdom. She works with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, bereavement, career challenges and trauma. She also supports people dealing with addictions, sleep problems, parenting strain and compassion fatigue.

Deborah uses a person-centred, pluralistic way of working. That means she talks with clients about what they want from counselling and chooses methods together. She draws on client-centred listening alongside psychodynamic ideas and cognitive behavioural tools to address thoughts, feelings and patterns.

Sessions often use practical exercises alongside talking. Deborah may introduce behavioural tasks, reflective questions or short therapeutic activities when these suit the aim of the work. She explains options and helps people decide what to try next.

She has experience supporting people who have faced childhood abuse, physical or emotional harm, neurological health issues and bereavement. She also works with people affected by attachment and adoption concerns, chronic illness, caregiving stress and body image struggles.

Deborah’s approach is collaborative and straightforward. Initial sessions focus on what is most pressing and on simple, manageable steps. Over time the focus can shift to understanding patterns, building coping skills and improving daily routines.

How Deborah uses different therapies in online counselling

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings while focusing on what matters to them. It uses gentle exercises to build willingness to act in line with values, which can help with anxiety, low mood and life changes.

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on careful listening and the person's own pace of change. The counsellor offers reflective listening and questions so the client can make sense of their experience and decide next steps. This approach suits people who want to be heard and to shape their work together.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, looks at links between thoughts, feelings and behaviour. It uses practical techniques and small experiments to reduce unhelpful patterns and improve day-to-day coping with mood, sleep and worry.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Deborah discusses options with each person and agrees methods together based on needs, goals and preferences. The plan can change as the work progresses so clients can try different ways of working.

The biography does not specify session formats, so please confirm current options before booking. Online counselling can make it easier to fit sessions around work, family and care responsibilities. It can also allow shorter check-ins, avoid travel time and reduce time away from home or work while still keeping therapy focused and practical.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementDepressionCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDParanoiaPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)HypnotherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression and relationship problems, plus trauma, bereavement, addictions and parenting strain.

What is her therapeutic style?

Her style is person centred and pluralistic. She uses shared decision making and combines client-centred listening with psychodynamic and cognitive behavioural techniques.

How much experience does she have?

She has three years' experience working as a therapist in adult services.

Which credential does she hold?

She is registered with the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society, shown as NCPS on her profile.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

What formats are used for sessions?

The biography does not list session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees and starting steps handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a cancellable subscription. To start, use the See online counselling options button, complete the short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session.

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